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		<title>By: Ryan M. Healy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan M. Healy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 14:11:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Five on Friday...&lt;/strong&gt;

I&#8217;ve been thinking a lot about what I want this blog to represent, what kind of articles I want to publish, what kind of schedule I should use for blogging, and a bunch of other things.
One thing I&#8217;ve been thinking about is how to share som...</description>
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<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking a lot about what I want this blog to represent, what kind of articles I want to publish, what kind of schedule I should use for blogging, and a bunch of other things.<br />
One thing I&#8217;ve been thinking about is how to share som&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Franck Silvestre</title>
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		<dc:creator>Franck Silvestre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 08:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m waiting for this Terry, thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m waiting for this Terry, thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Jimmy Krug</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jimmy Krug</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2008 17:58:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Terry,

When it comes to the love-hate response in people... in no forum is this principle more pronounced than it is in politics!  Imagine reading the Clinton&#039;s mail... or the Bush&#039;s mail!

Whether people see you as a beacon or a bullseye, when you&#039;re in a spotlight, you&#039;re in a spotlight.  And that&#039;s just the way it goes.  If there&#039;s any words or opinions worth taking to heart - it&#039;ll come from those closest to your heart.  Other than that, most of the rest is just background noise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Terry,</p>
<p>When it comes to the love-hate response in people&#8230; in no forum is this principle more pronounced than it is in politics!  Imagine reading the Clinton&#8217;s mail&#8230; or the Bush&#8217;s mail!</p>
<p>Whether people see you as a beacon or a bullseye, when you&#8217;re in a spotlight, you&#8217;re in a spotlight.  And that&#8217;s just the way it goes.  If there&#8217;s any words or opinions worth taking to heart &#8211; it&#8217;ll come from those closest to your heart.  Other than that, most of the rest is just background noise.</p>
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		<title>By: Terry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Terry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2008 12:36:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you everyone for responding!

One thing I should add to this.  While some people will hate you for your opinion, you should make sure you&#039;re not giving them a &quot;right to hate you.&quot;

Some marketers use the above facts for a reason to be jerks and treat your customers like dirt.  That&#039;s most definitely not what I&#039;m referring to.  

I&#039;m telling you to be boldly yourself...and let people hate you if that&#039;s their choice.  You be honest and continually treat people with the respect you deserve.

Franck, you asked about the coaching program...details will be coming on that in a couple of weeks when I finish a major project I&#039;m working on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you everyone for responding!</p>
<p>One thing I should add to this.  While some people will hate you for your opinion, you should make sure you&#8217;re not giving them a &#8220;right to hate you.&#8221;</p>
<p>Some marketers use the above facts for a reason to be jerks and treat your customers like dirt.  That&#8217;s most definitely not what I&#8217;m referring to.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m telling you to be boldly yourself&#8230;and let people hate you if that&#8217;s their choice.  You be honest and continually treat people with the respect you deserve.</p>
<p>Franck, you asked about the coaching program&#8230;details will be coming on that in a couple of weeks when I finish a major project I&#8217;m working on.</p>
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		<title>By: Franck Silvestre</title>
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		<dc:creator>Franck Silvestre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2008 09:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was trying to remember who said this statement: 

Dan Kennedy said, “If your marketing efforts are not pissing off a certain percentage of your audience, then you’re doing soemthing wrong.”

This is right, you can&#039;t please everybody.

the same applies in everyday life? Hmm, I&#039;m just thinking about what I&#039;ve just said...

Isn&#039;t Internet marketing a part of our everyday life?

Awesome post Terry. I wanted to have information about your coaching program, you said that it will change, but how?

Wanted to know a little bit more. I was going to join your monthly newsletter, but I don&#039;t know, I want to see what the one o one program has to offer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was trying to remember who said this statement: </p>
<p>Dan Kennedy said, “If your marketing efforts are not pissing off a certain percentage of your audience, then you’re doing soemthing wrong.”</p>
<p>This is right, you can&#8217;t please everybody.</p>
<p>the same applies in everyday life? Hmm, I&#8217;m just thinking about what I&#8217;ve just said&#8230;</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t Internet marketing a part of our everyday life?</p>
<p>Awesome post Terry. I wanted to have information about your coaching program, you said that it will change, but how?</p>
<p>Wanted to know a little bit more. I was going to join your monthly newsletter, but I don&#8217;t know, I want to see what the one o one program has to offer.</p>
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		<title>By: Adebola</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adebola</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 22:07:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Terry for another wonderful post.

There has been so many deceptions where I reside about Internet Marketing and I have been playing it safe despite the fact that I have a voice.

Now I have to voice out all thanks to your post ;)

Sure prepared to have some people hate me :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Terry for another wonderful post.</p>
<p>There has been so many deceptions where I reside about Internet Marketing and I have been playing it safe despite the fact that I have a voice.</p>
<p>Now I have to voice out all thanks to your post <img src='http://www.terrydean.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Sure prepared to have some people hate me <img src='http://www.terrydean.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: -- TW</title>
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		<dc:creator>-- TW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 20:01:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dan Kennedy said, &quot;If your marketing efforts are not pissing off a certain percentage of your audience, then you&#039;re doing soemthing wrong.&quot;  Marketing is one area where the MINORITY rules!  If you send out a mailing, and 97% of the recipients THROW IT AWAY, it&#039;s a giant success!  I heard someone add a great tagline to a quote from the Bible... &quot;The truth will set you free -- but it will piss you off first!&quot; -- Maybe that Godin quote should really say, &quot;Be cursable.&quot;

Cheers!

-- TW</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dan Kennedy said, &#8220;If your marketing efforts are not pissing off a certain percentage of your audience, then you&#8217;re doing soemthing wrong.&#8221;  Marketing is one area where the MINORITY rules!  If you send out a mailing, and 97% of the recipients THROW IT AWAY, it&#8217;s a giant success!  I heard someone add a great tagline to a quote from the Bible&#8230; &#8220;The truth will set you free &#8212; but it will piss you off first!&#8221; &#8212; Maybe that Godin quote should really say, &#8220;Be cursable.&#8221;</p>
<p>Cheers!</p>
<p>&#8211; TW</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 19:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A question for folks:  How often has a critical email been helpful in some way?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A question for folks:  How often has a critical email been helpful in some way?</p>
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		<title>By: Remy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Remy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 18:37:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Terry,

I always get some of these emails. I used to stupidly answer to defend my point of view. I just stopped doing it. It&#039;s time consuming, morally draining and it won&#039;t change a thing. I just hit the delete message button and its bye bye.

Remy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Terry,</p>
<p>I always get some of these emails. I used to stupidly answer to defend my point of view. I just stopped doing it. It&#8217;s time consuming, morally draining and it won&#8217;t change a thing. I just hit the delete message button and its bye bye.</p>
<p>Remy</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 17:26:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Terry,

Well said.  We all like approval but it&#039;s ridiculous to expect it from everyone - especially when we&#039;re putting ourselves in front of an audience as large as the web.

Sally, I haven&#039;t gotten to the point where I honestly don&#039;t care if people hate me.  I&#039;ll try to follow your example.

Joe</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Terry,</p>
<p>Well said.  We all like approval but it&#8217;s ridiculous to expect it from everyone &#8211; especially when we&#8217;re putting ourselves in front of an audience as large as the web.</p>
<p>Sally, I haven&#8217;t gotten to the point where I honestly don&#8217;t care if people hate me.  I&#8217;ll try to follow your example.</p>
<p>Joe</p>
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