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		<title>By: Lanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 10:12:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had same experience before when I took my board exam.  I must say that fear can really paralyze you.  Actually, it can take away your concentration during the exam!  The worst part is the waiting period for the releasing of results.
  
Btw, Congratulations and Goodluck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had same experience before when I took my board exam.  I must say that fear can really paralyze you.  Actually, it can take away your concentration during the exam!  The worst part is the waiting period for the releasing of results.</p>
<p>Btw, Congratulations and Goodluck!</p>
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		<title>By: Sylvia Dickens</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sylvia Dickens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 13:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julie, I know exactly where you&#039;re coming from - Congrats on achieving your dream.

I love writing but with only Grade 10 education, my only future was as a typist. At 38, I decided to advance my education and ventured into a Journalism course. As I progressed, fears arose. What if I really can&#039;t do well in school? (I was terrible in school and barely passed. I think they put me through just to save me further embarrassment. lol! )

I suffered anxiety and panic disorder for several years prior to entering journalism school and went through 2 years of therapy. In my last year of journalism, I had a full-blown panic attack that sent my fleeing down the hall to hide in the student lounge.

Depite the fear, anxiety and panic, in 1984, I graduated with honors from the 3-year program. 

After that, I braved my way through many live-changing experiences - from starting my new career to venturing into unknown waters to conduct interviews and get the story. I was born shy, so this was a huge step forward. I ended up with 3 awards between college and my reporting work.

This was proof enough that I have what it takes to do whatever I put my mind to.

10 years ago, I went online trying to sell affiliate products. No fear. Until the past few years. My efforts are not paying off, I&#039;m not making what I certainly should be after all this work, and I&#039;m now reluctant to get to work each day. I cannot handle any more of the stress that comes with checking my sales to find fat 0s week after week - and the ultimate realization of repeated failure.

This new fear is strange to me, so I am now struggling to figure out what I need to do to fix it. I do not know what the fear is, but my suspicion is that it&#039;s directly related to low self esteem. Repeatedly not succeeding has led to severe skepticism about my chances of succeeding. Do I have what it takes? I think so, but why isn&#039;t it working?

My challenge now is to overcome this lack of motivation that is triggered by this fear that encompasses many things, from financial debt to loss of hope.

Regardless, I will always have my journalism experience to fall back on. When I quit smoking, I knew I could do whatever I wanted - my will is that strong. When I overcame my fears, shyness and apprehensions, and social anxiety to move into my new career, I finally had evidence that I have the intelligence to find the solutions and deliver quality products.

Whatever your future holds, Julie, always remember this success and how you achieved it. Use that to strengthen you when you need it - as my success has enabled me to move forward in so many ways.

Terry, thank you for the excellent coaching program... I&#039;m behind right now because of serious tenant issues which are interfering with my schedule. I&#039;m convinced the lessons will help me to find the elusive trail that leads to success.

Sylvia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julie, I know exactly where you&#8217;re coming from &#8211; Congrats on achieving your dream.</p>
<p>I love writing but with only Grade 10 education, my only future was as a typist. At 38, I decided to advance my education and ventured into a Journalism course. As I progressed, fears arose. What if I really can&#8217;t do well in school? (I was terrible in school and barely passed. I think they put me through just to save me further embarrassment. lol! )</p>
<p>I suffered anxiety and panic disorder for several years prior to entering journalism school and went through 2 years of therapy. In my last year of journalism, I had a full-blown panic attack that sent my fleeing down the hall to hide in the student lounge.</p>
<p>Depite the fear, anxiety and panic, in 1984, I graduated with honors from the 3-year program. </p>
<p>After that, I braved my way through many live-changing experiences &#8211; from starting my new career to venturing into unknown waters to conduct interviews and get the story. I was born shy, so this was a huge step forward. I ended up with 3 awards between college and my reporting work.</p>
<p>This was proof enough that I have what it takes to do whatever I put my mind to.</p>
<p>10 years ago, I went online trying to sell affiliate products. No fear. Until the past few years. My efforts are not paying off, I&#8217;m not making what I certainly should be after all this work, and I&#8217;m now reluctant to get to work each day. I cannot handle any more of the stress that comes with checking my sales to find fat 0s week after week &#8211; and the ultimate realization of repeated failure.</p>
<p>This new fear is strange to me, so I am now struggling to figure out what I need to do to fix it. I do not know what the fear is, but my suspicion is that it&#8217;s directly related to low self esteem. Repeatedly not succeeding has led to severe skepticism about my chances of succeeding. Do I have what it takes? I think so, but why isn&#8217;t it working?</p>
<p>My challenge now is to overcome this lack of motivation that is triggered by this fear that encompasses many things, from financial debt to loss of hope.</p>
<p>Regardless, I will always have my journalism experience to fall back on. When I quit smoking, I knew I could do whatever I wanted &#8211; my will is that strong. When I overcame my fears, shyness and apprehensions, and social anxiety to move into my new career, I finally had evidence that I have the intelligence to find the solutions and deliver quality products.</p>
<p>Whatever your future holds, Julie, always remember this success and how you achieved it. Use that to strengthen you when you need it &#8211; as my success has enabled me to move forward in so many ways.</p>
<p>Terry, thank you for the excellent coaching program&#8230; I&#8217;m behind right now because of serious tenant issues which are interfering with my schedule. I&#8217;m convinced the lessons will help me to find the elusive trail that leads to success.</p>
<p>Sylvia</p>
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		<title>By: Lee McIntyre</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lee McIntyre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 23:21:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Terry and Julie

I just wanted to make a post and say a massive CONGRATS!

I remember how satisfying it was when I qualified as a teacher and so I know how happy you must be right now :)

Well done on the achievement and have fun reveling in it!

Enjoy the moment and the future career, too.

Well done again!

Cheers

Lee McIntyre</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Terry and Julie</p>
<p>I just wanted to make a post and say a massive CONGRATS!</p>
<p>I remember how satisfying it was when I qualified as a teacher and so I know how happy you must be right now <img src='http://www.terrydean.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Well done on the achievement and have fun reveling in it!</p>
<p>Enjoy the moment and the future career, too.</p>
<p>Well done again!</p>
<p>Cheers</p>
<p>Lee McIntyre</p>
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		<title>By: Layne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Layne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So sorry, I got excited about my project. Indeed a toast for R.N. Julie Dean.

I have a friend that&#039;s an attorney. He laughs and argues with me at the same time because I adress him as Counselor Jim. He says I&#039;m still just Jim. And I counter with the fact that he educated himself, pushed through to earn that title and so he should be adressed. I give him that respect though he&#039;s a childhood friend of mine.

So here&#039;s to an outstanding person having earned a respected title, congratulations R.N. Julie Dean. May this be the first of many accomplishments.

Layne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So sorry, I got excited about my project. Indeed a toast for R.N. Julie Dean.</p>
<p>I have a friend that&#8217;s an attorney. He laughs and argues with me at the same time because I adress him as Counselor Jim. He says I&#8217;m still just Jim. And I counter with the fact that he educated himself, pushed through to earn that title and so he should be adressed. I give him that respect though he&#8217;s a childhood friend of mine.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s to an outstanding person having earned a respected title, congratulations R.N. Julie Dean. May this be the first of many accomplishments.</p>
<p>Layne</p>
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		<title>By: Layne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Layne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 20:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, Terry likes &quot;keep moving forward&quot;. I raised my sons on that quote. At 23 I took over a resaurant with no prior experience, and succeeded. At 28 I was hired to mange a dairy farm. I barely knew how to drive a tractor, yet had the highest and most effecient milk production in under 5 months.

My point was &quot;keep moving forward&quot;.

I&#039;ve been working online for a while now, no significant progress yet. But I gathered the nuts and bolts of it and have put together a system to get the results I&#039;m looking for. It&#039;s a masterpiece. I was actually debating trying it today when I came across your email.

Long story short, I&#039;ve been staring at my own, self developed system &quot;terrified&quot;. Of what, I don&#039;t know. Maybe that it&#039;ll work beyond my wildest dreams. I hope so. Ater reading your post Terry I remember what it was that got me going years back. Get it going, weed out what doesn&#039;t work, and you&#039;ll have left what does work. A simple process of elimination.

I gotta get back to moving forward. Thanks Terry!

Layne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, Terry likes &#8220;keep moving forward&#8221;. I raised my sons on that quote. At 23 I took over a resaurant with no prior experience, and succeeded. At 28 I was hired to mange a dairy farm. I barely knew how to drive a tractor, yet had the highest and most effecient milk production in under 5 months.</p>
<p>My point was &#8220;keep moving forward&#8221;.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been working online for a while now, no significant progress yet. But I gathered the nuts and bolts of it and have put together a system to get the results I&#8217;m looking for. It&#8217;s a masterpiece. I was actually debating trying it today when I came across your email.</p>
<p>Long story short, I&#8217;ve been staring at my own, self developed system &#8220;terrified&#8221;. Of what, I don&#8217;t know. Maybe that it&#8217;ll work beyond my wildest dreams. I hope so. Ater reading your post Terry I remember what it was that got me going years back. Get it going, weed out what doesn&#8217;t work, and you&#8217;ll have left what does work. A simple process of elimination.</p>
<p>I gotta get back to moving forward. Thanks Terry!</p>
<p>Layne</p>
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		<title>By: Clara Mae Watrous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clara Mae Watrous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 00:09:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Terry and Julie,
I&#039;m glad for you Julie to be able to fulfill a lifelong dream, but I will surely miss your great help in answering my Email questions.

One thing that I admire about both of you is your integrity and Christlike concern for others.  That is a drawing factor in your lives.  I also appreciate your good content, Terry, without a lot of sales hype.

In your newsletter, Terry, you talked about doing more videos in the fall.  If you do that, please try to speak just a little slower.  Being a sight learner, I enjoy your printed page much better....with it I can underline, highlight, read it in the car, refer back to it, etc.  Also, it saves being &quot;glued&quot; to the computer, remembering to look away once in a while and blinking in order to save one&#039;s eyes.  =)

Keep up the good work and God bless,
Clara Mae Watrous</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Terry and Julie,<br />
I&#8217;m glad for you Julie to be able to fulfill a lifelong dream, but I will surely miss your great help in answering my Email questions.</p>
<p>One thing that I admire about both of you is your integrity and Christlike concern for others.  That is a drawing factor in your lives.  I also appreciate your good content, Terry, without a lot of sales hype.</p>
<p>In your newsletter, Terry, you talked about doing more videos in the fall.  If you do that, please try to speak just a little slower.  Being a sight learner, I enjoy your printed page much better&#8230;.with it I can underline, highlight, read it in the car, refer back to it, etc.  Also, it saves being &#8220;glued&#8221; to the computer, remembering to look away once in a while and blinking in order to save one&#8217;s eyes.  =)</p>
<p>Keep up the good work and God bless,<br />
Clara Mae Watrous</p>
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		<title>By: Graham in UK</title>
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		<dc:creator>Graham in UK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 22:04:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Terry
First - congratulations to Julie and well done -another &#039;Angel&#039;
Well I&#039;ve just overcome my fear and put up my first ever website!
I&#039;ve taken ages to do it because the copy is unique, the photos are mine, the header is mine - Yes I know - it could have taken just a few days if I&#039;d copied everyone else - but then it wouldn&#039;t have been &#039;my site&#039; would it Terry?
Of course, the next stage is as you say - will anyone see it? 
Will they like it? At least it&#039;s not about Internet Marketing -making money!
Have a look - tell me what You Think ( I remember your email you sent when you lost your dog - I&#039;d just lost one of my German Shepherd Dogs in the same week)
regards
Graham</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Terry<br />
First &#8211; congratulations to Julie and well done -another &#8216;Angel&#8217;<br />
Well I&#8217;ve just overcome my fear and put up my first ever website!<br />
I&#8217;ve taken ages to do it because the copy is unique, the photos are mine, the header is mine &#8211; Yes I know &#8211; it could have taken just a few days if I&#8217;d copied everyone else &#8211; but then it wouldn&#8217;t have been &#8216;my site&#8217; would it Terry?<br />
Of course, the next stage is as you say &#8211; will anyone see it?<br />
Will they like it? At least it&#8217;s not about Internet Marketing -making money!<br />
Have a look &#8211; tell me what You Think ( I remember your email you sent when you lost your dog &#8211; I&#8217;d just lost one of my German Shepherd Dogs in the same week)<br />
regards<br />
Graham</p>
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		<title>By: Julie Dean</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie Dean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 20:41:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi everyone :)

I just wanted to say &quot;Thank you&quot; to all for your encouragement.  By the way Leonard we are not too far from Ocala...so I do have a few options available. :)
Julie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone <img src='http://www.terrydean.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I just wanted to say &#8220;Thank you&#8221; to all for your encouragement.  By the way Leonard we are not too far from Ocala&#8230;so I do have a few options available. <img src='http://www.terrydean.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Julie</p>
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		<title>By: Yetti Chiu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yetti Chiu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 16:36:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations Julie!  : )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations Julie!  : )</p>
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		<title>By: Mark Thurston</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Thurston</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 16:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;I&gt;I just want to know where she’ll practice. 

You just have a nurse fetish. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>I just want to know where she’ll practice. </p>
<p>You just have a nurse fetish. <img src='http://www.terrydean.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </i></p>
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